This is not really true anymore. Haldex Gen 4 (facelift S3 8P) and Gen 5 are proactive. The clutch pack is controlled by the ECU, and requires no driveline slip to lock up. On launch/acceleration, the cars are programmed to lock the clutch pack meaning you have 50/50 mechanical split. Also, when you actually accelerate, the front gets lighter and the weight shifts to the rear, creating slip in the front diff (not wheel spin). So on a dry road on launch, some 60-70 percent of torque ends up on the rear axle when you accelerate.
Furthermore, in other conditions in which heavy dynamic weight shift occurs (cornering), or the road surface varies, rear torque bias can again be induced. This is not the same as overdriving the rear axle, but does reduce load on the front tires and ensure that the car remains fairly neutral, and most certainly plays a role in increasing ultimate grip and improving dynamics. A FWD car will wash out earlier than a Haldex or Torsen, when the AWD cars are driven properly, and a comparable RWD will be slower on corner exit.
Finally, since the ECU can lock the clutch pack at any time, this means that the Gen. 4 and 5 cars can be programmed to act very much like Torsens when you are really on it. Being electro mechanical, they can transfer power faster than a purely mech. system and they have the benefit of saving fuel when you don't need lots of rear axle engagement. In fact, with the revised EDS on each axle, this system is very similar to what the current Polo WRC is using (but obviously more road-car friendly) -- a 50/50 split with LSDs on each axle.
I don't understand why some posters rant about Haldex not behaving like "RWD." Audi's mech. systems don't either. Torsen works to equalize axle speeds and restore traction to a slipping axle. The latest mech. systems have a slight rear mechanical bias, but this does little to alter their basic character of neutrality and stability. I'm curious to drive the latest Golf R/S3, because with the latest EDS e-diff technology, I suspect they handle very much like my S4 with sports diff.