yeah, i dont think u got the propper HIDs then, on mine i have the manual control blanked out cos the hids have self leveling system on all four wheels.
you cant see the bulb becuase the facelift headlamps use the projection system, jus a new fancy way of making the light project to the road, the for sure way to check is to have a look at the back of your bulbs, the hids have a big conector with a voltage warning sticker on it. if not its just a normal bulb.