Apple I consider damaging to the industry I work in, and their practices and ideologies are bad for everyone, and AFFECT everyone by reducing consumer choice, so I consider them to affect me, my industry and i'll continue to criticise them for it!
In any case, I don't tend to comment on Apple stuff unless asked my opinion on it, or the topic is directly about it (eg, the in-car integration with mobile OS thread the other day). Or someone else is talking nonsense about it!
So yes, double standards then.
By the way, I love Apple products, have 8 or perhaps 9 (may have a shuffle hidden away somewhere) within the household. Having tried numerous alternatives (Samsung, HTC, Nokia, Blackberry) ended up with an iPhone on my latest upgrade and won't go back.
Apologies if that has caused you undue distress.
Back on topic, OP get it back to Audi and get it checked out.
At the end of the day, whether I like the option or not, you have paid for it, so if you think something isn't working as it should, get it checked.