I have both 18 and 19's. 18 at top 19 bottom.
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The 18's generally ride a little softer but not by much. The S3 suspension is after all a firm ride. Certainly if you have Mag Ride adaptive dampers it helps a little. A car with 18's on does not look under wheeled and the stock alloys are very nice. 19's do fill the arches a little better and also provide a more aggresive stance to the car. Pics do not do the 19's justics. Both 18 and 19 look good in my opinion.
But another major difference can be tyres and their side wall profile and ofcouse pressures. I have found these make night and day differences, and is very noticable on the 19's.
I have found Continental and Pirelli Pzero generally offer a firmer ride to Goodyear Eagle F1 or Michelin PS4S at the same pressures.
So when going up a wheel size, pay attention to pressures and choose appropriate tyres wisely dependent on what you want your car for and personal preference. After all everyone has different levels of acceptable comfort vs sporty ride and has different expectations of tyres... wear vs ride quality vs grip vs price etc etc.
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