Exterior light wiring diagrams - please help

[Platinum6316]

I'm trying to figure out how to find and tap the rear fog light trigger wire, and the high beam trigger wire.
The front fog trigger wire would be good too.
I'd like to add rally style lights to the front of my car and I want them to come on with the high beams and / or the rear fog lights.
I'm also adding LARGER BRIGHTER fog lamps and I'd like to have a relay turn OFF the factory fogs when the AUX fogs are on.
Please help me find the correct wires.
I have a 2011 A4 Quattro 6sp Base model sedan.

 

[ninjag]

There's a load of electric info in this if it helps: https://cardiagn.com/audi-a4-2008-electrical-system/

There's a download option as well:

 

[Platinum6316]

There's a load of electric info in this if it helps: https://cardiagn.com/audi-a4-2008-electrical-system/

There's a download option as well:
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Thanks man! Lots of good stuff in there! I see how to change my DRL bulbs and other things.
But I can't find the wiring diagrams to tell me what I want ...