Ok - I think i've refined it down a bit further now.
So I'm on ACEXE456 at the moment.
Brilliant Red / Black nappa leather / S-Tronic (because I'm not a proper man
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Comfort pack with adaptive cruise and rear parking only (comfort pack no brainer, adaptive cruise because its a toy and cool)
B&O Speakers (sounds epic, have heard it)
Folding mirrors with autodim drivers side (my wife has problems at night with cars from behind)
Lumber support (we both have bad backs and visit the osteo monthly so any help here is good)
Mono Pur (just makes it a nicer place to be inside)
Adaptive Headlights instead of High Beam Assist (have adaptive xenons on my MINI so dont want to step backwards)
Privacy Glass (looks cool and will help on long journeys with the dog in the summer)
Interior Light Package (makes it a nicer place to be inside)
No smoker pack (don't smoke)
Tech Pack (not high/mobile prep) (hate the low res screen on the basic nav and want proper integrated nav so only option)
Tyre Pressure Monitor (because it's only £75 and better than checking tyre pressures all the time)
After seeing some brilliant red/privacy A3 SBs I really do like that combo and what really swung me was the fact that you can order an R8 in Brilliant Red £0, if you want Misano it has to be a custom colour at £££££ as it's not even listed. If it's good enough for an R8, it will be good enough on my S3 (plus I had an A4 S Line Avant 06 plate in Brilliant Red and loved the colour)
This lists at 37510 OTR on the configurator, and at 35113 on DTD. Got screen grabs from DTD so I'm ready for the sales chaps when they open in a few hours time