I can't see the photos but a black grill is a must, it completely transforms the front end of the car (I hated the chrome/grey one on my black S3 before).
Fogged lights will depend on how dark you want to go and how good the quality is whether buying a film or getting them tinted. I bought some Lamin-x from the US to do my headlights, fogs and side indicators (not shown in my pic as it's an old one) of which I opted for their Tint version which was the lightest option they did as I didn't want it to affect light output much or look chavtastic. So if done right, then option 3 for me.