yeh if they love there partner or whoever, they'd see the light and do whats best and help them. but they never do, its not fair on the person being fed, it makes them physically worse and more mentally unstable. not fair at all. that goes for alot of young kids too, where the parents are at fault, given some kids arnt as active as others, but they can still be fed accordingly. aaannd jamie oliver has proved its easy and cheep enough. The last thing we want is to become more like america (apologies to any healthy americans). i just hate these programmes where people are depressed and unhappy with there weight and image, surely there was a point, where they started gaining a little, perhaps when they moved up a waist size, and thought woooooooohhhhhh, best get a hold of myself, they act as though it happend over night for no reason, when in fact it was them and there relatives. As for people who are genuinly happy with themselves being weighty, good on em, at least there happy, thats the main thing. people who arnt, well ya should've done somethin about it you lazy fool