Just a thought steve, maybe you are letting this smoke thing get the better of you , maybe it is not that bad but you've become a bit overly worried by it now.
I had a look at your starting post and all the work you have had done on the engine alone, surely with all that done to it there cant be any issues left.
there is one solution that will work, get black tinted rear windows.tailgate and mirror glass fitted, that way all will look great and you'll never know any different.
good luck with it, and, if you're thinking going tfsi would have been a better option you , don't fool yourself mate as all is not fine and dandy in our world either, just different engines with different issues.