where is my relay 109?

[fARQUARE]

Maybe one for those with better wiring diagrams or maybe a better knowledge of wiring.

Car 1.9 tdi
afn
avant
1996

pics of my fusebox with the lower dash removed:

i bought a new relay 109 to see if it helped with my starting problems and i might be daft but i cant see it in the fusebox....

thanks in advance

 

[aragorn]

It'll be in the ECU box in the engine bay.

 

[ex911driver]

Does your glowplug light come on ?

 

[fARQUARE]

not in the ecu box either, just been out for a look. I guess the afn is different.

Car is working fine, i was just going to do a little preventative maintenance.

 

[TeKnodriver]

I have AFN too and i did look for that relay when I had starting problems...
never found one though.