Well as I am sure most of you are aware this has been bugging me for quite sometime so I decided to email Sebastian at Ross-Tech. I had a reply within 20 mins with the solution so we've now tested that on Nigel's car and he was entirely correct.
So thanks to everyone for their support.
Another benefit to being a registered VCDS owner :sign_plug:
Yeah nice one Sebastian very much appreciated mate, damn no loud bong anymore, blissssssss, I also spoke to my audi tech guy late afternoon about 5pm & he also confirmed this to be the case but of course this was after Stu got answer from Seb@RT, took us time huh Stu, my issue was mainly down to a coding difference in my BT module which I'll take up with RT for some advice, but this didnt actually do the trick, but allowed me to use the solution, so very happy & at same time discovered the ****** quadlock had the Bose wired wrong all this damn time when playing with coding & discovered the code thrown after an oversight by me in coding rns, so yet another ****** kufa-fecking-tec **** up, never using them again I tell yer.
Now I've gotta check every single pin swap the adapter has to make sure its ok given its the 3rd issue from them, so feck it make my own for everything as I do now after there last **** up.
Anyway thanks to RT for the help & Stu for the suggestions, I'd like to thank myself & my family, cats & dogs, for accepting this award, always wanted to say that, lol
& yes damn right Stu, Another benefit to being a genuine lead & registered VCDS owner :sign_plug: (better go & register mine huh, lol, whoops, but its 100% genuine before anyone pipes in)
Anyway, anyone got the J version BT module & what coding is yours please