Thank you for your feedback.
I spend 90% of my time just driving normally, its just for that 10% of the time when I put my foot down which I need to think if it the extra is worth it.
My current car is a Leon Cupra (180 bhp) which is fast enough, the 1.8 didn't feel as fast but it was a lot lot smoother and really quiet.
I want to keep the payments reasonably so my decision is really a 2.0T with just folding mirrors, or 1.8T with folding mirrors, BOSE, heated seats and cruise.
Its a tough decision, what sort of MPG are people getting from the 2.0?
Decided which ever model to get, I will get it off the tinterweb, the dealer near me just keeps trying to rip me off.