Right. This is for all married men and women members out there. It is time for my partner and I to start making guest lists. 60 for the day and 100 for the evening. We obviously can't invite everyone we'd like (funds permitting) so do any members have any advice, perhaps based on their own wedding, to help eliminate those who won't unfortunately be receiving an invite? family members will account for most of the day guests and the evening will be made up of those at the day's ceremony and close friends added to the 60 to make the 100 for the evening. But who to choose? how to choose?