Sorry to hear about this.
I've been to a house in Batley which was full of Audi parts ...... they were Asians too. Infact, the road it was on had a few S3's and Leon's etc parked up down the road, with Asian lads just chilling in them. So strange. This was probably a year ago now though.
Sounds similar to the place we met them before going to the unit, the guy we had to follow was in a white Leon FR as i said, there was also an A4 BE and a few other high end VAG cars (cant remember off the top of my head), all the lads were in there early-mid 20s, wearing Gucci coats etc, all looked very dodgy (don't get me wrong they could be legit), my mate ended up buying a set of genuine S3 wheels with brand new Continental tyres for £250 off them.
^ Carnation Salvage is it?
Not sure on the name but its possible, they had a little unit next to a big breakers yard close to that essex street, so if this is the only big breakers round there then yes it probably is.
im going to check this out. Defo the name?
If you could get me the Ebay ID that that would be sound.
Unfortunatly i cant get the ID mate as he went down and paid cash for the wheels, rather than through eBay, my mate was hesitant to go in the yard at first as they said they had to lock the gate behind us, one of them laughed and said 'mate were not going to take your car we've got loads of them chopped up in here'.
Sorry i've not been much help, but i've atleast give you a lead on it, just go down and say your looking for BE wheels or something, did any of the parts at all on the car have any marks you could look out for? Any little marks on the wheels/interior etc that would stand out to you?
Good luck and sorry for your loss pal.