You just need to be sensible and lay out your options.
an FMIC is needed regardless, so set aside the budget for that and then look at what you've got left. I think you'll struggle to do a Frankenturbo (or other similar hybrid) or a GT28 for a grand in one go.
For instance you'll need an upgraded downpipe at the very least with a decat and sports cat. Theres probably a few hundred quid there, and its specific to the turbo you choose, so no point getting one made for the existing setup then changing to a GT28.
FMIC is probably going to cost best part of 200quid as well, though is fairly universal, however be aware that a lot of the kits designed specifically for the A4 are somewhat too small for a big turbo producing 300+hp.
So at that point you've got 600quid left to play with, which wouldnt even be enough for the turbo, never mind all the required bolt ons such as injectors, MAF, TIP and ofcourse the required tune after you've got all the bits together.
You really need to nail down a concrete power goal, because if you dont, changing your mind and letting spec creep take hold just means you end up wasting money by buying parts which then wont fit once you've altered something else about the build.
I think with some very careful shopping around, 260hp could be achieved for your budget of a grand, roughly something like this:
FMIC - £200 (big ebay core, and pipes/couplers purchased to fit)
K04-020 - £150 (used)
Modified K03 turbine housing to fit the K04-020 - £75-100
3" MAF housing - £20
SAAB Red Injectors - £50
Big bore TIP to fit the K04-020 housing - £130ish
Ported stock exhaust manifold, or big bore aftermarket one - £80
Tune - £400 (Rtech, bit of a guess on the price)
Gutted cat - £free
Its not perfect, you could ofcourse add a nice 3" downpipe and full exhaust system, you could use a rebuilt bigger turbo with hybrid wheels etc etc, but i recon with those bits, you'd manage to come in around a grand and have a setup that should achieve 250-260hp.