Ok so had a drive of the car now - and VERY pleased to report I loved the car.
With so much mixed reaction I was unsure if the car would live up to MY expectations.
The car had both standard exhuast and standard suspension.
It was in black, had the aluminium pack and had lunar super sports seats.
Had the car for a few hours so was able to drive on roads I was familar with.
Firstly - I was able to put one concern to bed straight away !
Seating position - I have read several comments taking about the seats being too high.
Are these people mega tall ?
I am 6 foot and the seating position was absolutely fine and no issue at all.
The super sports seats were extremly comfirtable and felt great.
I will defo be speccing the super sports seats.
Although not in lunar silver - regular black is much more to my taste.
Engine note was really nice on start up and a few pops from the exhaust.
The sound is very noticeable on tick over or low speed and during hard accelleration.
I was amazed how quiet the car was during general cruising at 70mph.
I would have no problem at all with this car on the motorway or long trips.
The noise is there when you want it exactly how I like it.
The performance was just incredible.
Virtually no lag which impressed my greatly.
Just endless lumps of relentless power.
You reach 70mph in no time with this car.
The accelleration is just amazing !
More power than I could ever need.
Ride on the standard suspension was if I am honest very firm.
Riding over uneven road or speed bumps and it did go with a thump even at slow speed.
and this was having the suspension set to comfort and then trying auto.
This has got me wondering if I need to spec the mag ride.
Mag ride is advertised by Audi as providing improved comfort levels - and better handling in dynamic mode when driving hard.
So I do really now need to find a car with mag ride if possible to compare.
I could live with the standard suspension but it was just a tad firm for my ideal set up.
Can anyone comment on mag ride and the settings in comfort / auto / dynamic ?
There is no denying the car is very discreet in its looks.
This was not helped (IMO) with how the demo car was configured.
Black and aluminium pack - with silver roof bars - and lunar interior just did not do it for me at all.
This made me realise that colour choice is VERY important in making this car at least "look" like an RS.
Absolutely no roof bars.
Black pack essential to de-chrome.
A reasonable colour to make it stand out - althought colour choice is quite limited.
For me it will be nardo or white - both which contrast well with black pack.
That will make it stand out and look purposeful enough for me whilst still retaining an element of discreet.
I am also considering the sports exhaust - as I do believe I could handle the volume turned up a notch.
The regular set up was great and easily the best sounding car I will have owned, but I could be talked into going the whole hog.
Part of me thinks, its an RS **** it and go for it

So am pondering that along with mag ride.
There is no question it is the car for me though.
I was considering the new Merc A45 AMG too, but after driving the Audi I am not that fussed at arranging a test drive tbh.
I just felt comfortable with the Audi - as I have done with my last 3 cars so would take a lot to break me away from the brand.
Plus the 5 pot engine really is a super engine and makes a wonderful sound - the 4 pot Merc won't beat that no way.
So it was great, I thoroughly loved it and want one.
Just gotta see nardo first hand, experience mag ride and sports exhaust if I can and then decide my final spec

