I never said men were pigs or is that the term of reference you are choosing to adopt. I'm not one to broadcast my personal life over the internet, yes I am recently separated after 7 years together but more his choosing than mine. However, in some sense I see it as a relief as I no longer have to live on egg shells and put up with his jealousy anymore but he does still try. I'm not looking for a replacement (not yet anyway) and want to enjoy my freedom for a while. Plus I have two gorgeous children to consider. And just for the record, I have never cheated in my life yet still got accused of it, despite not particularly having a life of my own at any point during those years we were together.