I have an opinion on this, take a seat
There has been a push by manufacturers to use thinner oil, it is better for their stats on emissions and economy. It is worse for component life but they do not have the same interest in that. I disagree with the use of thinner oils.
It is not confined to the 2.9T as the 4.0TV8, T2.5TI5 and 4-cyls all suffer the same. There has been concern that oil pressure drops at the top of the engine when hot but this is not where oil pressure is read or monitored. People testing the oil pressure at different areas have found lack of pressure. 2.5I5 and 2.9V6 have had issues with rockers on the VVL cams that could be made worse by lack of oil pressure.
More confusing is if you are on yearly service the standard oil is Special G which is 5w40 but if you are on longlife (and daft enough to leave your oil in for 2 years) they will give you LongLife3 oil 5w30. You may even get 0w30.
Personally I would not touch that longlife stuff with a bargepole. No matter what you put in it you will be better changing it twice as often than sweating what flavour of oil you put in. Only caveat is I would avoid Millers as it has caused some issues in VAG engines. Currently I use Motul 8100 Xpower 5w40 in everything including my RS3 and it is what will go straight in the RS4 if I ever find one
TLDR if it were me I would run a good 5w40 and change it at least yearly