Its a problem that will only get worse over time... I have a spare haldex controller that had done a reported 60k miles when I bought it... no idea when mine will finally give up the ghost but Gen 1 controllers are getting thin on the ground...
Don't even think about a blue controller... genuine ones are as rare as unicorn p00p and there are more than a few fake 'powder coated' std units on eBay fetching 500plus
One thing I am considering looking into is an 8P and later rear diff swap... the CAN protocol is the same by all accounts so comms wise the controller should work however its down to if the diff will physically fit...
Given VAG's inherent laziness it stands a chance but I already looked into 02Q boxes as a source for future gearboxes and they can be made to work with Ignitron as I can tell it to take the speedo signal from the ABS rather than the speedo sender on the box as the 02Q doesn't have one
Not sure about the VR... I haven't looked hard enough at the Mk5 to see if they did R32's in manual on those... I am fairly sure they did and if so again its a potential source of parts for our aging cars...
Will keep a lazy eye out for a rear diff... if one comes up at the right price (free ideally) then I'll make the effort to look into it
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