I have been getting this intermittent problem where when stationary I shift the stick to neutral and the engine stops. When I want to move it's at this point that 1st has some real resistance. Some times the gear stick will not fully move into place forcing me to go back to neutral and then try again. It's only when stationary that I get this issue. Normal gear selection is totally fine across the gears. Car has done 45k. Any ideas what this could be?