Our driveway consists of 2 cars, both manual with the 150 and 184 engine. The A3 is the 150, the 184 is in the form of a Golf GTD.
Day to day I find the 150 perfectly acceptable, no complaints at all, the 184 is quite a bit more 'peppy' and you feel the extra ooomph from 3rd gear upwards - admittedly in the GTD it feels a little more sporty than my A3. Having had 130/150 TDi's and then 140/170 variants, I would say the 184 feels a bit more grown up and driveable compared to the earlier variants (the 170 suffered terribly from lag and dolloping the power in one big hit) and has a decent smooth power curve.
MPG wise, my 150 is doing 50-54 consistently, the 184 is 45-47. Tyres wise my A3 at 24k just needs new front tyres (Conti 5's), the 184 (Bridgestone's) has done a front set in 13k.
Just my insight and experiences...