thanks guys been looking at wheels all day now and an more confused then when i started. as i said i'm new to all this and am not sure what i'm doing , the car is mainly used by the wife as the run around but i still want it looking nice , it will never be a show car as i have 3 kids who can destroy anything just by looking at it and the wife thinks that curbs are there to bounce of and keep you on the road when your not looking what your doing, i'm not going to spend a ton of cash on it and not looking to be a trend setter, just want to spend what i can wisely and maybe grab a barging here and there and get some sort of cool looking car out of it , i do like the tt rs 19" but at 2k off e-bay abit to rich for me and not sure that 19" are the best option for the wife? but they do come in 18" but cant find any oem only rep's. so still looking.