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  1. unkle

    unkle Beer God

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    As per title, why the **** do I bother... I dont ask for much..... get ****ed over every time.
     
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    Ads License to drive

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    Go on.......
     
  3. Lings

    Lings Active Member

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    Might be somthing to do with your sig

    pipe check ,Slippers check etc ?
     
  4. warren_S5

    warren_S5 Moderator Staff Member Moderator VCDS Map User

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    I'll be honest there was a time in my life when I felt the same, but I found out the kind of person I was attracted to had similar characteristics and this led to similar outcomes.

    After a bit of head scratching I realised that what you want ain't always what you need. I looked for someone with a slightly less gregarious outlook on life, and I'm now in a relationship that is 10 years old this month (married for 5 years). I'll openly admit, neither of us is probably what the other one would have chosen based on what we thought we wanted personality wise, but it works really well.

    As my mate always says, you have to kiss a lot of trolls to find the right one ;-)
     
  5. unkle

    unkle Beer God

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    lol no nothing to do with the sig btw my D5 sounds far nicer than any rattly diesel A3 aye thank you ;D

    To summarise Boy meets girl, girl has only ever dated dickheads and loosers, girl cant get her head around why (in her words) an amazing boy like me would like a girl like her yadda yadda think we all know where this is heading she wants to come round mine later and give me the old heave ho Im just pissed off me and the females on this planet just cant get along I have so many girly friends its unreal but on the friends bench with each and everyone one meh. If I cant talk her around I swear Im just gonna ignore women and be a wreckhead till I hit 40 then go and thai bride it...

    End Rant.
     
  6. StateOfPlay

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    Don't take no **** mate, girls do not like a pushover.

    Treat em mean, keep them keen.

    But you got to do it right, what I mean is, don't slam the door in their face or lock them out of the house in the rain, but you got to keep yourself interesting to the woman by doing your own thing and being your own man.

    If it were me, I would call her and tell her not to come round tonight as you are going out with your mates, maybe she could come around tomorrow?

    Take it from there. You can tell her you love her, you can look after her, but you got to be your own man.

    Good luck mate, and if I am wrong, I apologise.
     
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  7. Lings

    Lings Active Member

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    Perhaps you need a makeover .change of slippers and a new pipe you will be fine
    just get down the bingo for your next lady ;)
     
  8. unkle

    unkle Beer God

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    Lol women, all sorted now she was a little bit insecure due to her last BF being a bit of a **** but we went for a nice walk and talked and had a brilliant weekend women eh cant live with them, cant kill em ;D
     
  9. Sandra

    Sandra MODERATOR Staff Member Administrator Moderator TeamMisano TFSI Owners Group Gold Supporter quattro Audi S3 s tronic

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    Sorted. Hope things go well.
     
  10. Sarah's A3

    Sarah's A3 MODERATOR V6 S3 Hybrid Staff Member Moderator

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    lol, worrying for nothing. Complex creatures apparently, us females. If shes had a bad history of loosers etc then her feeling insecure is understandable. Sounds shes hit the jackpot with you. Enjoy and have fun together.
     
  11. warren_S5

    warren_S5 Moderator Staff Member Moderator VCDS Map User

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    Glad to hear there's balance in the force again mate; nothing that's easy is worthwhile!
     
  12. salad.dodger

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    9yrs and i still think why do i bother:laugh:
     
    Last edited: Aug 15, 2011
  13. Lings

    Lings Active Member

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    Good to here matey ...:)
     
  14. StateOfPlay

    StateOfPlay Well-Known Member

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    Nice one mate, glad it worked out. Maybe don't be too mean after all:yahoo:
     
  15. hades-

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    she into the old sport of dogging then
    YAY :tumble:
     

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