Girlfriend of 9 years left me today, lived with her 8 years. She came in kissed me good bye and went off to work, everything seemed normal, came home though from and found she had pretended to go to work, but then had waited for me to leave for work came back and moved out, came back to a dear john letter spoke to her and she is 100% sure she wants out says no there is no one else but she wasnt happy, first I knew of it. What do I do chase her or let go .... ? Going to have to sell the frigging house now and in this sh*tty housing m*rket. Man did not see this comming.