It's all good mate. Gonna have to give that ecu a miss for now, funds are low with having to buy spacers, plus coilovers are coming soon too, may finally get those rims on! Found 2 sets of H&R spacers, plus all the bolts for £140 delivered from motorsportworld.co.uk, seemed ok price to me.
Got yours all sorted yet? Prob gonna GTI spring fest at pod if you're there.