This is a difficult one to nail as everyone has different expectations, experience & skills and probably no two forum members drive on the same stretch of road at the same speed I'm sure some are more laid back (probably myself included) and some prefer a more aggressive drive. Whilst I like to 'go with the flow' most of the time I also like to have a play from time to time and if someone is driving at 50mph in a 60mph limit with a clear road ahead then there's no way I'll be behind them for long as that's a pet hate of mine.
I've probably had more than the average number of cars in my 30 years of having a licence. Just tried to jot them down and from memory there's 36 but I'm sure to have missed some off. Forgetting some of the early ones and RWD being Mk1 Mexico's x2, Capri 3.0's x3, Cortina's, etc and some of the more restrained cars including Focus Titanium, Fiesta Titanium (diesel), A3 1.8TFSI 8P and an Alfa Giulietta. The more interesting ones including 205 GTi 1.6, 205 GTi 1.9, 309 GTi and also a Goodwood GTi, XR2, Polo GTi, Golf GTi, 306 XSI, 306 S16, 306 GTi, Clio 182, Clio 197, Clio Trophy, 206 GTi, Honda Civic Type R (triangle shape), ST170, Audi TT and my previous car being a Leon FR.
To answer some of the S3 criticism's I find that whilst my S3 does corner like it's on rails that it does offer less steering feedback than some of my other cars. Maybe it is a trait of being a quattro and something Audi dial in deliberately but I don't remember my TT being the same. Maybe as I push on I may then receive more feedback or maybe not .....
As for the po-go-ing I've got mag ride and experienced this over a speed hump in comfort mode, the rest of the time it's fine. In Dynamic mode no such bounciness so far and I find that I could live in Dynamic mode all of the time it's a fair balance between comfort and handling for me. Mine has 18" wheels.
A fair few guys at work have Fiesta ST's as they are on the car scheme. They rave about them so I can believe that the grin factor £ for £ is greater than S3 ownership but who would win on a track I really have no idea. Which would I rather own ? - the S3 every day.