Brits Abroad..... How far is too far?

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Just saw this.....

http://www.mirror.co...sh-girl-3802568

Cant decide where I stand on this. Harmless? Skanky? Disturbing? Who's to blame..... the promoters? The guys? The girl? All of the above?!?

Cant help but feel this kinda thing is crossing the line between the 'acceptable' kind of 18-30 behaviour in to something a bit more sinister.

Imagine that was your daughter - cant even begin to think what would go through my head if I woke up this morning to find that in the paper.
 
Magaluf. AKA Sh*g-a-scruff.

Her parents must be thrilled!
 
Shameful, cant believe the bars actually promote this sort of behaviour!!
 
Nobody going to ask where the video is? :whistle2:













Seriously though you'd have to be some trampy bint to even contemplate that sort of thing, ****** as a fart or otherwise.
 
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girl is such a **** she doesn't even get hooker rates... her parents must be overjoyed to raise such a slapper

same thing used to go on in Benidorm back in the 90s
 
What a f****g hound, she could only be from this skanky island where people will go to extraordinary lengths for cheap booze. Shameful.
 
As a 25 year old guy I would out the blame on the girl, she should have some self respect. What goes on in the bedroom is nobody's business but the people who are there but this in public and on video is just skanky.

You could put some blame on the guys/bar itself but the temptation would be there to go through with it just to see if the girl actually is that skanky
 
well to be fair, it takes a right ******** to even line up for a girl to do that to you... so the guys are just as bad IMO.

they should have more self respect to be involved in things like that too... ;)
 
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I feel sorry for the girl tbh, its Magaluf where young people go to have fun.
She’s not the first one to do something like this, and she’s not going to be the last. Its just that someone filmed it and put it out on the net… (some good friend she’s got to do this) not!!
You can see it’s peer pressure as well, for her and the boys.


I wonder if the background of the young girl will come out in the next few day, probably on This Morning or jeremy kyle!
 
the_cueball said:
well to be fair, it takes a right ******** to even line up for a girl to do that to you... so the guys are just as bad IMO.

they should have more self respect to be involved in things like that too... ;)
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Unfortunately "lad" culture killed self respect among most young males :( made it seem cool to abuse as many women as possible and plenty of tv programs seem to glamorouise it.
 
Y'know whats REALLY bizarre......?

Posting this very same thing on another well known forum (word for word copy and paste of original post) and receiving a one week ban for it!!!!

Madness.
 
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ESD1711 said:
Y'know whats REALLY bizarre......?

Posting this very same thing on another well known forum (word for word copy and paste of original post) and receiving a one week ban for it!!!!

Madness.
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I can arrange a one week ban aswell, if that's what you want? :laugh:
 
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What was the reason for the ban??

You weren't one of those guys were you???

Self promotion is a big no no!!

(Im joking by the way :))
 
Haha nope..... nothing like that.

Apparently what I posted was deemed to be 'NSFW' and worthy of a week ban..... Despite avoiding posting the actual link to the video, and despite what I posted coming from a national newspaper, referring to something that was front page news for a day or two.

No warning, no slap on the wrists, do not pass go, do not collect £200, just have a week ban.

Bonkers!
 
ESD1711 said:
Haha nope..... nothing like that.

Apparently what I posted was deemed to be 'NSFW' and worthy of a week ban..... Despite avoiding posting the actual link to the video, and despite what I posted coming from a national newspaper, referring to something that was front page news for a day or two.

No warning, no slap on the wrists, do not pass go, do not collect £200, just have a week ban.

Bonkers!
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For our own safety, are we permittted to know which forum this was?
 
Acht, i'm not gonna get in to a poop slinging fight over it - so its probably best I don't say a word, no doubt it'll end in another ban or something.

However, as a clue, think of a 7 letter word followed by a 2 digit number.
 
It was quite funny as i read your post on this forum when you put it up and then flicked over to that forum shortly after and had a very strange feeling of deja vu, till I realised it was the same person posting.

Oh well, another clue is that the first word often gets mixed up with addition.....lol :)
 
Can I post the name as Im not a member on there and therefore can't be banned from it!!
 
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You're a moderator on here Warren, I couldnt possibly tell you what you can and cant say ;-)

I'm not going to lose any sleep over it to be fair - the 'injustice' of it bugs me more than the not being able to access the site.

Its the fact they dish out a ban then make it impossible to discuss the matter - have dropped them a mail and a facebook message, but it would appear the matter is not up for discussion!

That and the fact that the ban doesnt even fit in with their own published rules / guidlines - which suggest a 1 day ban should apply (if you break the rules that is, which i'm still certain i've not!).

Lifted from their site:

How the 'Warning System' works:
Everytime a user crosses a guideline - we issue the user a warning. Warnings are kept track of, and forum suspensions (complete inability to access the forum) are handed out an
an ascending fashion.
1st Warning: 1 day suspension.
2nd Warning: 7 day suspension.
3rd Warning: 14 day suspension.
4th Warning: 28 day suspension.
5th Warning: 1 YEAR suspension.

Cant even consistently apply their own rules for 'made up' offences!! Like I say, the whole thing just seems utterly bizarre and unnecessary.

Meh. Such is life I guess haha! Will take it up with them when I can access the site again...... Nae doubt that'll end in another ban.
 
Well once you have access again, maybe send the mods a PM and discuss it with them, I doubt you will hear much or have much of an explanation as there are always people getting bans on there, so it would be difficult for them to respond and deal with every individual case that comes up.

I personally dont think it was worthy of a ban as it is news at the end of the day and is publicly available on high street newspapers.
 
I was banned from here for no fault of my own, cough, cough, and I was so frustrated! To be fair to me, it worked and I crept into my shell a little more :) I'm not saying you're in the wrong, I just wanted to vent about being banned myself haha!

Back on topic, yes the girl is a silly girl, but as if these things haven't happened for years. Just now the internet and mobile phones makes people much more accountable. It's not good behaviour, but I think it's unfair the wrap the girl is taking. Let her live her own life. It's not one i'd ever choose or want my kids to choose, but she doesn't deserve the treatment. I think the men are worst anyways.

I'm off to hide before the barrage of abuse...
 
I'm assuming it's Edition 38, and if what you say is a fair reflection of the facts as they happened then it does seem a touch on the extreme side to ban you for it without any prior warnings / instruction of ban / time limit etc.

We will ban people here for bullying / tormenting / repeated instances of posting items that are deemed inappropriate, but we'll normally try and appeal to people's good nature first before getting the banning stick out.

Maybe if you can get a current member to support your case and contact the mods on your behalf it may help.
 
ESD1711 said:
You're a moderator on here Warren, I couldnt possibly tell you what you can and cant say ;-)

I'm not going to lose any sleep over it to be fair - the 'injustice' of it bugs me more than the not being able to access the site.

Its the fact they dish out a ban then make it impossible to discuss the matter - have dropped them a mail and a facebook message, but it would appear the matter is not up for discussion!

That and the fact that the ban doesnt even fit in with their own published rules / guidlines - which suggest a 1 day ban should apply (if you break the rules that is, which i'm still certain i've not!).

Lifted from their site:

How the 'Warning System' works:
Everytime a user crosses a guideline - we issue the user a warning. Warnings are kept track of, and forum suspensions (complete inability to access the forum) are handed out an
an ascending fashion.
1st Warning: 1 day suspension.
2nd Warning: 7 day suspension.
3rd Warning: 14 day suspension.
4th Warning: 28 day suspension.
5th Warning: 1 YEAR suspension.

Cant even consistently apply their own rules for 'made up' offences!! Like I say, the whole thing just seems utterly bizarre and unnecessary.

Meh. Such is life I guess haha! Will take it up with them when I can access the site again...... Nae doubt that'll end in another ban.
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B*****ds!
 
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crazy88 said:
I was banned from here for no fault of my own, cough, cough, and I was so frustrated! To be fair to me, it worked and I crept into my shell a little more :)
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Is there ever smoke without fire ;-)

You weren't one of the 'pub' lot were you?
 
warren_S5 said:
Is there ever smoke without fire ;-)

You weren't one of the 'pub' lot were you?
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Me? :whistle2:


Personally, i'd recommend you wait a week and move on. It's not enough hassle to fight it. The mods will get more satisfaction out of you fighting it than ignoring it.
 
Back on topic...
She was probably a bit of a slapper anyway, & likely off her face on coke or some other "modern chemicals".

I think these days from teenage up, they forget there are cameras everywhere, & these days once its on the net it'll never disappear..
 
Will make for interesting reading when potential employers start googling her!
 
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Im going to sound old now, however the younger ones nowadays dont realise the effect this behaviour can have on future life prospects, especially in this age of social media and technology being so widely available.

I mean in our day, we were able to get away with a fair bit, but we didnt have to worry about the Internet, CCTV or mobile phones and cameras etc and todays news was tomorrows chip shop paper!!
 
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You're right, Nilz. I find it slightly curious that the generation that has grown up with global social media seems to be the one that is the least aware of its potential consequences.
 
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jdp1962 said:
You're right, Nilz. I find it slightly curious that the generation that has grown up with global social media seems to be the one that is the least aware of its potential consequences.
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I agree with that completely! The internet was rolling onto the scene when i was about 15-16 ish. I didn't have a mobile until I was 18, and have very little interest in any social media now. Some of that stems from not caring about others and their fake lives they post on Facebookj, but some of it is that I see it's just not good. I hate posting pics of me, the wife and kids online. Nevermind all the crap that youngsters post, it's crazy.

Back in the day you could have an orgy and be safe knowing it stayed in the room ;) not so these days.... :moa:
 
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I heard about this the other day.

Apparently she was promised a free "holiday" - the holiday turned out to be the name of a cocktail.

That said, its wrong on so many levels - regardless of alcohol.
The girls morals for being so low, and also the lads for allowing it to happen.

Just think about it from a health perspective - Im fairly confident in assuming that at least one of those lads would have had an STD of someform - her mouth just became UPS Same-Day delivery for a few lucky customers.
 
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