Options are so personal and that's the beauty of buying new - but it is important to research them well.
I reckon having such a special car is about enjoying it to the max, so why not have all the options that you personally like. If you drop options because you are concerned you wont get their value back later you could be missing out. There are quite a few posts on here where people have stated they wish they had had this or that option (eg Audi connect). To me if you are spending £40k why then skimp on a a few extra grand of options - if they are what you like and will further enhance your experience.
Two great old sayings come to mind - "if a job is worth doing its worth doing well" and "why spoil the ship for a half penny's worth of tar"!
My advice is load up - I know I will