Well, I can only speak from my experience of owning cars big on driver involvement, and id say that given modern conditions, involvement and enjoyment are not the same, even in a decent car.
Cars with a high degree of driver involvement can be very tiresome in day to day driving, because you dont want to have to be involved 100% in the car even when you're just getting to work and back, and can be a real pain in the butt.
Evo do tend to focus on a cars performance above everything else, which is fine. They dont have to consider whether it can lug a chest of draws around, or whether it guzzles petrol faster than Shell can produce it, or whether the ride over most roads is too hard when you're not trying to push on, so the main focus tends to be on how the car performs, and I know that when I buy the mag, so its not a complaint, its just that they can make it seem like driver focussed cars are the be all and end all, whereas the time you get to drive the car hard is only a small portion of the time its used (generally).
You're lucky you're in a low congestion area, its a dying luxury it seems, I used to have low congestion on my journey to work, but now to get 18 miles takes up to 45 mins, its like the population has exploded in the past 2 or 3 years, so for me, and I bet a lot of people, DSG offers a good blend of performance and fun, while making it very easy to drive when you want.
As mentioned, it all comes down to personal choice, but having owned an Integra Type-R, Clio 172 Cup, RX7 TT, and an S2000 over the past few years, Ill take the DSG diesel to do my journeys in, Ive been massively impressed by it.