That's a ****** good idea.
Get the full on fake profile on.... :-/
Just concerned that might be taking it a bit far. I think I'd rather just confront her about it.
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That's a ****** good idea.
Get the full on fake profile on.... :-/
Just concerned that might be taking it a bit far. I think I'd rather just confront her about it.
I've not sent the email yet - I've only drafted it and saved it pending my decision....
She doesn't know I know as yet....
Is this an old entry that she hasn't got round to deleting ?
Best bit of advice is not to knee jerk and try and discuss it calmly with her - you seem to have a good relationship so try to not blow it.
Good luck.
Paul
Dane
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Mate... tricky sit. It's always worth getting all the details before going ballistic.
Does her page tell you last time she logged in/was active? she may well have not been on it for a year... Just playing devils advocate there.
Other than that I think 'explain' is a restrained email given the circumstances
Does her page tell you last time she logged in/was active? she may well have not been on it for a year... Just playing devils advocate there.
Other than that I think 'explain' is a restrained email given the circumstances
See now they were my thoughts... Is it an old profile etc etc etc.
No is the simple answer. Created April this year, last login was the 1st August.
Afternoon all BTW - shameful weekend with all this rioting.
Smudge keep safe and what a bunny boiler you have as an ex.
Sad weekend for us but my Mrs's uncles house is all now cleared and she has said goodbye to it (Grandparent's house first).
Off for lunch now.
Paul
Smudge keep safe and what a bunny boiler you have as an ex.
Sad weekend for us but my Mrs's uncles house is all now cleared and she has said goodbye to it (Grandparent's house first).
Off for lunch now.
Paul
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Mate... officially not cool in my book. It also begs the question, is that the only one?
I think my answer is top then mate. I would not be happy at all.
Failing that, i'd also consider setting up a quick fake profile as mentioned and trying to arrange a date, see what her reaction is. Don't take it too far though before you confront her.Man this is a tough one dude.
I feel sad for you.
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You need to deal with this calmly though mate otherwise you might make thing worse.
Just mention to her that you happened to browse across her profile (you weren't spying) and that you noticed it said single. See what her explanation is.
Whilst I can see your point dude, it's on the website Free Sugar Daddy Dating & Sugar Baby Personals.
Now if it was twitter, fine. Facebook, fine. But this is specifically a web site where people who are loaded go to pick up women and take them out.... Why would you register yourself on there if that wasn't the aim of the game. I would be less concerned (not much mind) if she had mentioned it to me, but she hasn't.
There is only 1 reason I can see that she is on there. Because she is a common, money grabbing slapper. That's a concern in itself. I couldn't really give a toss about the fact it says she's single. It's the fact she's on there at all.
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I agree with w3sty, try talking to her calmly welly, im sure there is a very simple explanation.
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That is what I shall do.
The question is though, how far do I take this....
Do I fake a profile and give it all the lyrics? It's so tempting, but then that takes me from the moral high ground (for once) down to the same sneaky level.
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Just come out with it and ask her what she's playing at. If she's not happy then she should tell you and not be sneaking around behind your back texting dudes with R8s and registering herself on SugarDaddy!!!
Yeah, see that's it in a nutshell isn't it. Nail on the head.
I don't trust her any more sadly, and to be fair, without trust, the relationship is dead in the water.
Easiest thing in the world to lose, trust. Virtually impossible to regain.
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Ok, sorry welly, i missed a post there. Not sounding so straighforward now. I guess if i were you, ibwould go down the route you mentioned and see if you get a response, then you know what your dealing with. Im sorry that this has happened to you welly, i really am.
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It's an issue of trust now and the explanations that get her out of it are limited IMO, unfortunately experience has taught me its usually as bad as it seems but they often worm they way out of it.
My thoughts are it doesn't really matter how you approach her about it and she deletes it, theres no way you'll know that she wont do it again and it'll be in the back of your mind, which has no place in a relationship. all of course in my experience and opnion.
My thoughts are it doesn't really matter how you approach her about it and she deletes it, theres no way you'll know that she wont do it again and it'll be in the back of your mind, which has no place in a relationship. all of course in my experience and opnion.
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Elly, If I was you I'd calmly ask her about the Sugar Daddy profile and see if she gets on the offensive imediately, if she gets all lairy and argumentative then you know you've hit a nerve and she's probably hiding something.
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Dude wtf. You can't not go ballistic!! But that said it's time for some sneaky beaky action I thinks. Start new profile and lay the bait. See if she's up for biting. You never know it could be a wind up via a mate ( doubtful ) but best way to go I think. Then if she dose bite at the cheese you got all the evidence you need. I'd set up a meet and be the guy that walks into the bar. Then have it out there in full view.
And yr buying a house together. The cheek!!
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If you don't mind me asking, how did you find out about the profile?
And I think you hit the nail on the head. Without trust, a relationship is nothing unfortunately. And it takes YEARS to regain.
And I think you hit the nail on the head. Without trust, a relationship is nothing unfortunately. And it takes YEARS to regain.
OK, my plan is to completely ignore any comms from her for the rest of the day. Completely.
When she gets all p*ssy later on, which she will, I am going to reply (This is how the conversation is going to go in my mind):
Me: 'Up for fun?'
Knob: 'What?'
Me: 'Are you up for fun?'
Knob: 'Why?'
Me: 'Because apparently you are a 'bubbly blonde up for fun'. So let's have some fun. I'll pay you and everything.'
And then let the festivities commence from there.
I must try to avoid the use of the words: Tart, Slapper, Common.
But I just won't be able to.
When she gets all p*ssy later on, which she will, I am going to reply (This is how the conversation is going to go in my mind):
Me: 'Up for fun?'
Knob: 'What?'
Me: 'Are you up for fun?'
Knob: 'Why?'
Me: 'Because apparently you are a 'bubbly blonde up for fun'. So let's have some fun. I'll pay you and everything.'
And then let the festivities commence from there.
I must try to avoid the use of the words: Tart, Slapper, Common.
But I just won't be able to.
Oooooh mate that is so tempting. But the problem is that I would then have to hang onto the anger for at least a few days, more like a few weeks really and I simply won't be able to.
Look what i'm drinking for dinner. mmmmm! I haven't had proper milk from a bottle in years. I can't stop drinking it.
Back on topic...
Back on topic...
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Thanks mate, but I can't. It's daddy daughter night
Something to look forward to then
We could lead her on via a profile on SD for you and give you the info? then it's not you laying the bait.
I get you there fella. But you want the truth. It would be so easy to worn out of and have a mate do a cover up. But like you said keeping it in would be double hard.
If you wanna change subject for a while iv got a cracking family affare that kicked off in our house last night
If you wanna change subject for a while iv got a cracking family affare that kicked off in our house last night
Something to look forward to then
We could lead her on via a profile on SD for you and give you the info? then it's not you laying the bait.
Appreciated - but not required. If there is going to be any sneaking about to do, I shall be doing it.... mwahahaha
Something to look forward to then
We could lead her on via a profile on SD for you and give you the info? then it's not you laying the bait.
Now that my son is a great idea. Shell think she's stuck gold.
I get you there fella. But you want the truth. It would be so easy to worn out of and have a mate do a cover up. But like you said keeping it in would be double hard.
If you wanna change subject for a while iv got a cracking family affare that kicked off in our house last night
Seen as you're smiling about yours...spill the beans! It might cheer up the tone from Welly's bad news.
Welly, let us know how it all goes though dude. I've got your back (as far as possible though an internet forum)
Scott is gonna be so ****** off that his inlaws are over and he's missing all this today
Are there not spies on this forum though dude? I thought you got busted last time by someone on here. Might be an idea to keep hush hush about your new identity.
Might be an idea to keep hush hush about your new identity. 
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**** Welly bad news mate, is the house a joint venture? if so it could be a godsend you have found it now....
Trouble is with having fancy model type birds, is THEY know they are sex on legs, so its always in the back of the blokes mind...is she up to anything....seen it to many times, mates bragging how fit there new bird is and months later they have slept with there so called mates...
I personally would come straight out with it and basically ask WTF is this...!
Trouble is with having fancy model type birds, is THEY know they are sex on legs, so its always in the back of the blokes mind...is she up to anything....seen it to many times, mates bragging how fit there new bird is and months later they have slept with there so called mates...
I personally would come straight out with it and basically ask WTF is this...!
The main reason I am doing it this way is because I'd love to know what lie she'll tell me as to her whereabouts on that evening...
This way I can cross reference her reply against other times she's been busy doing this or that or whatever. I think I will get a better feel for the truth.
This way I can cross reference her reply against other times she's been busy doing this or that or whatever. I think I will get a better feel for the truth.
Are there not spies on this forum though dude? I thought you got busted last time by someone on here.
True. Will edit.
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If you wanna change subject for a while iv got a cracking family affare that kicked off in our house last night
Lets hear it man! lol :thumbsup:
Ok so I'll skip the 6 months lead up but in short... The miss's ma & pa split up and he ended up moving in with this 30 yr old council skank with 4 kids, 3 have different dads and is a right bit of filth. By the way he's almost 60 yrs old so 10 points for that, it's well known throughout the ribble vally that my misses family are minted so it's always be a concern that she's in it for the money's. Last nigh amanda's phone was going mental on the txt. Then she told her dad is no longer with the skank and has moved out of the house they moved to last weekend. And her bro Jamie has moved in and is now slurping on dads sloppy seconds grandma & grandad will go ****in nuts, ooooo the family name is ruined. hahahahahahahahahhahaha
grandma & grandad will go ****in nuts, ooooo the family name is ruined. hahahahahahahahahhahaha
