ASN's Pub

[s3dave]

Ha maybe my mrs has brainwashed me, de caf at home, but normal at work, she shops, so she holds the ace card, to be fair i dont mind it though..
I cant moan as she always buys me plenty of wine, beer, vodka, and makes sure theres always beer cooling in the fridge....

 

[Welly]

Morning guys. Ok so a quick catch up in the pub, we have damo with his broken down car, no lycra for W3sty, nice boat trip for Scott, decaf coffee, brakes for cars, and thats just in the last hour. Its going to be an interesting day full of topics to keep it amusing. Whats the weather like for everyone today. Hope you all have sunshine.

Weathers crap here - cloudy but humid.

Bored at work.

Annoyed that the TT has the 'Dash Pod Issue'.

Found a blue flame TT 225 exhaust for £150 cat back (used) though and agreed to buy.

Bored of training the new guy. I hate training.

 

[Westy]

and makes sure theres always beer cooling in the fridge....

Non alcoholic no doubt

 

[Reesy]

Apart from me, who else googled 'Dash Pod Issue'?

 

[Westy]

Apart from me, who else googled 'Dash Pod Issue'?

Nope.

 

[ScottD3]

Apart from me, who else googled 'Dash Pod Issue'?

Me, no idea what he's talking about. lol
Every time welly mentions TT I think of the motorbikes or hair dressers. lol

 

[s3dave]

No....

 

[Sandra]

Mmm, sorry the weather is not so good for you guys, we are on day 8 of sunshine in scotland. You will notice i am counting as we usually get mostly rain it seems these days. Hopefully it will pick up for you all soon. Im not outside so i dont know the temp, but can feel the heat through the window at the moment.

 

[Westy]

Me, no idea what he's talking about. lol
Every time welly mentions TT I think of the motorbikes or hair dressers. lol

I know what he's talking about but my dash/DIS is fine so I dont care

 

[smudge_don]

Is it wrong that i've got the ex Mrs coming down to see me for a couple of days this week?

 

[Sandra]

Is it wrong that i've got the ex Mrs coming down to see me for a couple of days this week?

Yes, lol

 

[Westy]

Is it wrong that i've got the ex Mrs coming down to see me for a couple of days this week?

Yes very wrong. She's an ex for a reason, sack her off

 

[ScottD3]

Is it wrong that i've got the ex Mrs coming down to see me for a couple of days this week?

Yes.

We got blue skys, no clouds and about 24degrees.

 

[smudge_don]

Yes, lol

Yes very wrong. She's an ex for a reason, sack her off

Yes.

We got blue skys, no clouds and about 24degrees.

Hmmmm.....

What if she's offering sexytimes?

 

[Westy]

Hmmmm.....

What if she's offering sexytimes?

No sack her off.

EDIT:

Come to think of it, post up a pic of her and I'll decide

 

[Sandra]

As W3sty and scott have said, she is an ex and fkr a this reason alone, you must both move on. Keep in touch with her by phone if ou must, but you shouldnt be having her diwn, presumably saying iver at yours, thats just too much, it may lead her to think thT you can sort your differences and im sure thats not what need. Didnt you mention a new mrs and blackpool the other day. Whats she going to think about an ex showing up? Life is complicated enough without all this smudge.

 

[Welly]

Bleedin hell you lot....

 

[Westy]

Life is complicated enough without all this smudge.

It's complicated enough that you'll have to explain you w@nking injury too

 

[Welly]

Life is complicated enough

Sandra, you sound like an Abbey National advert!! lol

 

[Welly]

It's complicated enough that you'll have to explain you w@nking injury too

 

[Sandra]

Sorry, thats just my personal opinion, its not to upset you and im not being judgemental, i have 2 sons, and would say the exact same to them, move on with your life.

 

[smudge_don]

No sack her off.

EDIT:

Come to think of it, post up a pic of her and I'll decide

You've seen plenty of pics of her!

As W3sty and scott have said, she is an ex and fkr a this reason alone, you must both move on. Keep in touch with her by phone if ou must, but you shouldnt be having her diwn, presumably saying iver at yours, thats just too much, it may lead her to think thT you can sort your differences and im sure thats not what need. Didnt you mention a new mrs and blackpool the other day. Whats she going to think about an ex showing up? Life is complicated enough without all this smudge.

No that was the ex that i went Blackpool with was with her for nearly 2 years

 

[Welly]

Sorry, thats just my personal opinion, its not to upset you and im not being judgemental, i have 2 sons, and would say the exact same to them, move on with your life.

Agreed. The key term here is ex. Keep it that way.

Ex sex only ever ends badly....

 

[smudge_don]

Sorry, thats just my personal opinion, its not to upset you and im not being judgemental, i have 2 sons, and would say the exact same to them, move on with your life.

We're both trying but it's very very hard. I think we might've both realised that things were better off before and if we'd talked about problems them we wouldn't have broken up....hmmm....toughy

 

[smudge_don]

Agreed. The key term here is ex. Keep it that way.

Ex sex only ever ends badly....

It's ended quite well the last few times

Giggity

 

[Welly]

We're both trying but it's very very hard. I think we might've both realised that things were better off before and if we'd talked about problems them we wouldn't have broken up....hmmm....toughy

Well dude, I didn't realise it was quite like that....

If you are genuine and think it might actually work, then maybe it would be worth a punt.

However, you have to think how long it will be until the same issues that split you up in the first place reoccur?

 

[Welly]

It's ended quite well the last few times

Giggity

 

[Westy]

Bleedin hell you lot...

Oh right, that's not good!

 

[Sandra]

Sandra, you sound like an Abbey National advert!! lol

Hey welly, i pretty much say what i think, makes life a whole lot easier.

 

[Welly]

Hey welly, i pretty much say what i think, makes life a whole lot easier.

:thumbsup:

 

[Welly]

Oh right, that's not good!

No. Not good at all. Apparently (VAG COM says 90 degrees) the temp is out the top of 130 degC and beeping and all that.

Boooo.

 

[smudge_don]

Well dude, I didn't realise it was quite like that....

If you are genuine and think it might actually work, then maybe it would be worth a punt.

However, you have to think how long it will be until the same issues that split you up in the first place reoccur?

Ye this and the fact that she's now back up in Bedford are the thoughts going through my mind.....kinda crap

 

[Westy]

We're both trying but it's very very hard. I think we might've both realised that things were better off before and if we'd talked about problems them we wouldn't have broken up....hmmm....toughy

In which case smash it!

I was with my ex for over 5 years and she messed me up badly to the point I was on anti depressants. I wouldn't even say hello to her if I bumped into her in the street now.

The whole situation has made me stronger and helped me realise what I want from a relationship. My current gf is great and she has really opened my eyes.

 

[Westy]

No. Not good at all. Apparently (VAG COM says 90 degrees) the temp is out the top of 130 degC and beeping and all that.

Boooo.

Rip it out and fit a Stack unit

Is it the actual unit at fault or switch/sensor/wiring issue for the pod?

 

[Welly]

The whole situation has made me stronger and helped me realise what I want from a relationship.

Often the case, however the breaking free and the several months after the initial break up are the hardest part. Short term loss, long term gain.

 

[Welly]

Rip it out and fit a Stack unit

Is it the actual unit at fault or switch/sensor/wiring issue for the pod?

The chip set at the back of the dash. A simple manufacturing fault. Often the fuel gauge and temp gauges are the ones, however some people get issues with rev counters and speedos as well.

I am going to leave it for a few days and see what it does. It's had a new CTS and that's deffo working fine.

 

[Westy]

Often the case, however the breaking free and the several months after the initial break up are the hardest part. Short term loss, long term gain.

Hence why I was/am on the pills. Moving on is not always that easy.

 

[Westy]

The chip set at the back of the dash. A simple manufacturing fault. Often the fuel gauge and temp gauges are the ones, however some people get issues with rev counters and speedos as well.

I am going to leave it for a few days and see what it does. It's had a new CTS and that's deffo working fine.

Has the mrs had a go at you for buying a heap?

 

[smudge_don]

Hence why I was/am on the pills. Moving on is not always that easy.

Doctor offered me anti depressants but they're not for me

 

[Sandra]

Ye this and the fact that she's now back up in Bedford are the thoughts going through my mind.....kinda crap

Think very carefully about what you do. Dont give her hope if its not a serious thing for you. You have to both sit down and talk things through without the sex. If you can get by the problems and insecurities and trust issues, then thats good, but if you cant, she remains an ex. 2 years together is not really a long time to get to know someone properly. Maybe try just veing friends, dating etc for a while. Keep it simple. Sorry for preaching. I hate seeing people get hurt. I wont say any more.