is there a setting to allow me to save/re-read sent pm's?
when i click on that it says i have no sent messages,when i have sent plenty!
It's all good man, give it a couple of months and I reckon you'll be alright to stick a dash of scotch/brandy/rum/whatever in the bottle. Sleep no problem then.
--OK, I'm not actually suggesting or endorsing that in any way. That doesn't change the fact it didn't do me any obvious harm.