how do you find yours mate is it the 204 or 233 bhp?
It's a 233 (& that's PS, which works out at 230bhp). It's a great car; smooth, effortless, and so easy to drive very quickly indeed. I cannot tell you how much I love it.
But it is not remotely sporty. You have to remember that all A4s have most of their weight not just over, but actually in front of, the front axle. In the case of the 3.0TDi, the engine is enormously heavy, so the understeer is pretty overwhelming. They also have rather mushy and uncommunicative steering.
You can reduce the understeer a little by going for an S-Line over an SE, but only at the expense of what, to me at least, is a ruinously uncomfortable ride. And it still isn't particularly sporty - but then if you want sporty, don't start here.
A better compromise, in my view, is to stick with the SE, but then fit an RS4 anti-roll bar. By doing that, you can achieve virtually the same reduction in understeer that you get in an S-Line, but without damaging the ride comfort.