I'm just about to finish a complete retro-fit install of the auto-lights and wipers, auto dimming rear view mirror, rain sensor and coming home lights functions on my 8P S3. I'm just waiting for the rain and day driving lights sensor from VAGparts. Should be here early part of next week.
It's been a lot of work and lots of research but hoping to do a write up soon once I've completed it and can confirm it works.
From what I've found out, this is what you need-
1. An auto dimming rear view mirror which also has a light sensor in it, along with a new windscreen as the fixing is completely different. I though I might have been able to buy just the fixing but couldn't. I managed to get a new windscreen fitted as an insurance claim with the larger fixing along with the sunband so I was happy.
2. The lights and rain sensor that also fits inside the fixing on the windscreen for the auto wipers (this is why you need the new fixing), its placed behind the windscreen with a gel pad and clipped in place.
3. Wiring loom. I got mine from Kufatec.de.
4. New light switch with the auto lights and coming home functions.
5. Some additional wiring that you will need to make up for the coming function to work.
6. VAGCOM to code the car.
Basically quite a bit. It turned into one of those "started so can't stop now missions" in the end.
Hope to get it all sorted out next week and will be able to advise if all is correct.