I've done a search, but couldn't find the info so hopefully this isn't a duplicate post.
In the DIS, flick the display round until you see the 'set', 'check' etc options, Select the 'set' option. You should see things like computer etc. Go to the small down arrow that is at the bottom of the list and select it with the control stalk.
Two settings should appear - doors and windows. Have not played with the windows settings yet, but it looks like you can set up the convienence closing with the remote.
If you select the doors option, you can choose if the selective locking is on and off and also if the auto-lock setting is on or off (doors auto lock above certain speed).
I thought this could only be done with Vag-Com - so much easier setting it via the DIS