being a lass i doubt shes into mods, maybe i'm wrong.
she has to decide for herself which she prefers to drive, quattro v fwd. she should drive them both back to back in wet and dry.
quattro slightly heavier, not much though.
without modifications, 200 bhp, is fine for the front wheel wheels, yes in the wet they slip when u floor it, what fwd car doesn't.
fwd = better fuel economy, doubt she'll notice though.
i have a s-tronic (dsg) dual clutch semi manual gearbox, which is very smooth, ive driven the manual, the gearbox is nice and smooth also.
turbo isnt a big one, turbo lag is minimal.
if she wants a manual she should go with quattro, the other option is the 2.0t without quattro, just manual.
if she wants an auto with semi manual overide go s-tronic which is fwd only.
with the a3 2.0t you cant have both quattro and s-tronic.
there are various packages for the a3, she'll have to look at them and see which bests suites. the top spec. s-line package comes with larger alloys, sline badging inside and out, lower suspension, no modifications under the hood, a different body kit. she may want to ride cars with different suspension set-ups to see which one she prefers, s-line is too firm for some.
my choice, an s3, a beefed up 20.t engine with quattro (haldex) and comes only in manual.